Reflections

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Speaking Below the Water line

Speaking Below the Water line

Some parts of a speaker's improvement are on the surface and easy to spot. But the juicy stuff - the kind that creates true and lasting transformation - happens through deep work beneath the surface. Watch this video to learn about Speaking Below the Waterline....

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Honor Your Way

Honor Your Way

At the beginning of my teaching career, I tried my best to do it like “them.” I copied my mentors. I mimicked my colleagues. Meanwhile, my Soul whispered to me from inside: “Honor your way.” Every once in a while, I listened, and my way felt soooo good. Like a secret...

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speaking is a Spiritual Practice

speaking is a Spiritual Practice

A few years ago, a workshop participant described his journey during our work together as going through a kind of "spiritual puberty." In that moment it dawned on me that speaking is a spiritual practice. If we choose it, it can be one of the most powerful spiritual...

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Resilience

Resilience

Never interrupt someone doing something you said couldn't be done. - Amelia Earhart Michael Jordan was cut from his High School Varsity Basketball team. Steph Curry was told he would have "limited success" in the NBA. Michelle Obama was informed she'd never get in to...

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Quiet Power

Quiet Power

Have you been told that you’re “too quiet” or asked to “speak up” throughout your life? You are not flawed. You have a gentle presence that’s desperately needed in the world. I t’s possible to own your quiet presence, be authentically YOU and be seen and heard and...

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Aligned Action

Aligned Action

Yes. Hard work creates results. However ... Aligned action creates better results. I have to remind myself of this one ALL THE TIME. One of my soul suckers tells me that I'm not enough, but if I work 100,000,000 times as hard I can make up for my not-enoughess. Those...

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How to Give a Tantalizing Intro

How to Give a Tantalizing Intro

Have you ever gone over the allotted time during a networking intro? Have you ever felt out of breath? Have you ever sat back down without having a clue what you said? I've been there, and I've helped thousands of clients with the same experience. Watch this video...

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Mentoring vs Coaching

Mentoring vs Coaching

What's the difference between a mentor and a coach? Both can help you realize your vision - and they do it in very different ways. Watch this video (recorded live) to find out more. https://youtu.be/atVxLF-TTaw

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