We’ve been taught the wrong standard for leadership. Clear. Composed. Confident. Controlling. Certain. But what if you didn’t need to have it figured out yet? What if not knowing wasn’t a liability, but the very thing that makes leadership real? Consider this...
Early in life, I didn’t want to be a leader. Still, I held the roles.Captain. Point guard. Softball coach. Director.The one speaking up.The one people quietly followed. I equated leader with something I didn’t want to become. Someone controlling everything.Performing...
We spend much of our lives learning how to fit in — to color inside the lines, to follow the rules, to meet expectations that were often never ours to begin with. But what if success isn’t about fitting in at all?What if it’s about finding the shape that’s uniquely...
How Markus Found His Voice (Again) What happens when your soul remembers before your mind does? At three years old, Markus Newcomb pulled a chair into the center of his family’s living room and began to speak. Not to perform. Not for attention.But to share what he...
Unleash Your Presence, Stepping into the Power of Your VoiceWhat if speaking wasn’t about performing, but about being fully present?That’s the heartbeat of Instead Talks — creating spaces where leaders gather not to impress, but to connect, grow, and spark change.I...
From the moment we arrive in this world, the “shoulds” start stacking up. Be polite. Work hard. Get the gold stars.Follow the rules. Stay safe. Fit in.Don’t be too loud. Don’t be too much. Don’t take up too much space. Don’t be too...
